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Psychologies.ru presents a series of free lectures dedicated to the study of relationships in a couple and one’s own character. Perhaps it is here that you will find answers to the question of how to become happy together.
„M+F. Santykiai, kuriuose laimi abu
Pavel Kochkin — businessman, coach
The speaker reveals seven levels of relationships and six types of currencies that a man and a woman exchange. Knowing these simple rules will help achieve synergy in a couple, when each partner has the opportunity to realize their natural destiny and reach great heights.
“Love, affection, deep convictions. What prevents you from being happy in a relationship?
Yakov Kochetkov — clinical psychologist, director of the Center for Cognitive Therapy (Moscow), chief consultant at the Udesroze clinic (Latvia)
Why is it difficult for people to maintain relationships? One answer to this question is that our relationships are influenced by early schemas. Early schemas are enduring beliefs about self and others as a result of childhood experiences, as well as equally enduring ways of maintaining relationships with others. Unfortunately, these beliefs and behaviors often get in the way of our relationships. The speaker will help you get rid of these attitudes.
«Relationships VS Love»
Vladimir Dashevsky — psychotherapist, candidate of psychological sciences
Elena Ershova — clinical psychologist, sexologist, counseling psychologist, teacher of psychology
The most common reasons for seeking help from psychotherapists are related to relationships in a couple. Lecturers will analyze the most common of them:
- “He beats me, mocks me and constantly threatens me with a divorce. Can you explain to him that divorce is too much?
- «How do I leave a person I don’t want to leave?»
- “I’m afraid of my wife. I want her to be afraid of me too.
- “It annoys me when my husband threatens to kill me. How not to get annoyed?
- “Teach how to throw women properly, otherwise they want an explanation for some reason.”
- “I really love the guy, but he doesn’t have me … How can he take revenge for this?”
«Love and intimacy in a couple: fickle variables»
Maria Tikhonova — psychologist, psychotherapist, training leader
Partners are often tormented by doubts about how strong the relationship is, how deep their love is. Relationship temperature changes are difficult to accurately assess in statistical terms. And yet we feel that the intensity of passions is not the same at different stages of the evolution of the couple. How to build deep and harmonious relationships in this fragile sensual world?
What type is your couple? How does the temperature of the relationship change with the transition to the phase of stability after the turbulent beginning of the novel? How does the presence of children affect the relationship of spouses? How to bring back deep interest and passion in a relationship when attraction seems to be lost forever? The psychologist will answer these questions.